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Hey guys! This might be a weird question, but where do single straight men in their mid 30s–early 40s usually hang out in NYC? I’d love to meet people IRL instead of just through apps, but I honestly don’t know where my type of guy spends his free time.

I’m into more athletic, friendly, bro-ish men who are established in their lives and not super conservative. The only place I can think of is the gym, but I don’t love approaching people while working out.

For context, I’m 34F, athletic, love travel, food, and culture. My hobbies are mostly creative, which means I mostly meet women, gay men, or partnered guys. I also WFH, so no office run-ins.

Men can feel like a mystery to me sometimes — so where do you guys actually hang out, or what activities do you do where you’d be open to meeting women?